If you are in the right relationship, it should pretty much always feel natural and easy, right? If it is not that way, it means you are either in the wrong relationship or you have the wrong expectations. Knowing which is true for you is not a decision that you take lightly and, as a matter of fact, it causes a lot of worry.

The tendency is to wonder if you are working too hard for this relationship and then to switch to wondering if you might be making too many assumptions. Are you being emotional? Are you overthinking things? It can feel very confusing and the self-doubt is maddening.

One thing you can do is move forward with creating connection. Clarity comes with action. Rather than drive yourself crazy with worry and doubt, you can focus on committing to the relationship and let the answers come to you. Take the first step by enrolling in my five day FREE course, Emotional Intimacy 101.